Maren & Matt

September 16, 2022 • Doylestown, PA

Maren & Matt

September 16, 2022 • Doylestown, PA

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Maren & Matt's Love Story

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Years before any spark of romance was even an unconscious thought to either of them, Maren and Matt met in April of 2014 at a show of The Representatives' production of "The Rakes Progress". Matt was the Co-Artistic Director of The Representatives, an indie theatre company that performed political plays in NYC apartments, and Maren was a sophomore in college at Pace University, coming to check out some cool underground theatre. Matt greeted Maren as she entered the apartment where the show was taking place, and she remembers his charismatic and welcoming energy.


For the next three years, Maren worked her way up through The Representatives' hierarchy, going from door attendant, to bartender, to hospitality manager, to Assistant Director. Maren and Matt worked together as friends and colleagues through the end of The Reps' reign, which came to a close in May of 2017.


Though they stayed in limited contact for the next two years, it wasn't until Maren texted Matt in March of 2019, looking for community and a creative outlet that they reunited or, as they put it, "re-met". Matt invited Maren to a reading of his pilot script of "Little Dick". Maren attended, gave her honest feedback, and from there, Maren and Matt began writing and producing together.


Fast forward to October of 2019: after 7 months of writing together and building their production company, One-Eyed Rabbit, Matt and Maren started realizing their attraction for each other. When writing and producing meetings turned into 2 and 3 hour lunches and dinners, and brainstorming meetings kept them up later and later at night, the butterflies became more and more difficult to leave unsaid.


After some flirtatious nights out and holding hands while singing Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper's "Shallow" in an Uber from Williamsburg to Midtown, it was time to get real. Finally, on a fateful October night on Maren's Brooklyn rooftop, after an all-day writing meeting and dinner, when Matt got weird, stiff, awkward, and started pacing around the rooftop nervously, Maren finally addressed the attraction.


"You're cute." Maren said, "And it's getting harder and harder to pretend like you're not cute." In response, Matt's neuroticism was in full force as he agreed that Maren was also attractive, but he was super protective of his current place in life and not-knowing-what-he-wanted-ness saying "I want to be able to kiss you and then run away and then come back and kiss you again and then jump off this rooftop and come back and kiss you again." Maren replied with the phrase that has stuck with Matt since that night, and really made him think differently about this moment: "I like you, but I don't need you." She assured him that their production company would come first, and that if it didn't work out between them, she would be just fine to move on.


With that, they kissed, on a chilly October night in Brooklyn, and yes, fireworks did seem to explode around them as they kissed for the first time.


It took another month for Maren and Matt to sort out their feelings along with how much their production company meant to them, and accept the very large risk they were undertaking in pursuing a romantic relationship with each other. At one point Matt even called it off, saying he didn't want to "kiss anymore" and potentially ruin what they had with One-Eyed Rabbit. That quickly went out the window after a writing research trip to upstate New York, visiting Maren's Aunt and Uncle and going out dancing, when Matt and Maren realized there was no going back.


Shortly after, Maren took a two-week trip to India. Excited to go on a date with Matt upon her return, their romantic tryst was delayed a week when Matt booked a last-minute commercial that filmed in Madrid, Spain.


FINALLY, the day after Matt's return from Madrid, they went out on their first date. They ate Mexican food at Fonda and saw the soon-to-be-Academy-Award-Winning film Parasite at Nighthawk Cinema in Brooklyn.


And they never looked back. From December - March they met each other's family and friends, who all quickly realized what a solid match Maren and Matt were. The COVID-19 pandemic in March of 2020 sped up their process of moving in together, Matt eventually coming down from Inwood, Manhattan to move into Maren's Crown Heights, Brooklyn apartment. They got a puppy that they named Odin, they fell deeply in love, and in August of 2021, with a sparkly diamond ring and a "drumline" comprised of videos of their family and friends drumming, Matt proposed to Maren in the vineyards of Castello di Amorosa, a vineyard and castle in Napa Valley, California.


Maren and Matt are so excited to take this step forward in their love and commit their lives to each other. And they can't wait to share that moment with all of you!

Maren and Matt originally met through Matt's Theatre Company "The Representatives" back in April of 2014.

Pictured here is the cast and crew of The Representatives' production of "Cut The Shit" in August of 2015.

August 03, 2015

Maren and Matt originally met through Matt's Theatre Company "The Representatives" back in April of 2014. Pictured here is the cast and crew of The Representatives' production of "Cut The Shit" in August of 2015.
The Representatives took their production of "Private Manning Goes to Washington" to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in August of 2016. Maren and Matt worked together as friends and colleagues on the show.

August 12, 2016

The Representatives took their production of "Private Manning Goes to Washington" to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in August of 2016. Maren and Matt worked together as friends and colleagues on the show.
Cast and crew of "Private Manning Goes to Washington"  at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in August of 2016.

August 13, 2016

Cast and crew of "Private Manning Goes to Washington" at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in August of 2016.
In Edinburgh, Maren and Matt met up with some of Matt's friends one night!

August 14, 2016

In Edinburgh, Maren and Matt met up with some of Matt's friends one night!
Maren and Matt began writing and producing together in 2019, throwing a launch party for a project titled "Thank You Five" in October of 2019, and founding their production company One-Eyed Rabbit in November of 2019.

October 21, 2019

Maren and Matt began writing and producing together in 2019, throwing a launch party for a project titled "Thank You Five" in October of 2019, and founding their production company One-Eyed Rabbit in November of 2019.
Story time: the night before this photo was taken at the Pitch to Screen Film Awards, Maren and Matt were on Maren's Brooklyn rooftop when Maren brought up the fact that the two of them had been flirting. Matt freaked out! But they confessed their like for each other! And kissed! And it was magical! And Matt still freaked out... and it took Maren taking a two week trip to India and Matt taking a week-long trip to Madrid for them to finally get it together and go on their first date.

October 26, 2019

Story time: the night before this photo was taken at the Pitch to Screen Film Awards, Maren and Matt were on Maren's Brooklyn rooftop when Maren brought up the fact that the two of them had been flirting. Matt freaked out! But they confessed their like for each other! And kissed! And it was magical! And Matt still freaked out... and it took Maren taking a two week trip to India and Matt taking a week-long trip to Madrid for them to finally get it together and go on their first date.
Maren and Matt had scheduled a work trip to Maren's Aunt & Uncle's house in Saratoga Springs to do research for their pilot based in the Albany-area, "Little Dick". They left for that trip as confused colleagues who had kissed, and came back as a little something more. Still took them 22 days to go on their first date!

Pictured here with Maren's Aunt Dana, Maren and Matt went out dancing and got steamy on the dance floor.

November 02, 2019

Maren and Matt had scheduled a work trip to Maren's Aunt & Uncle's house in Saratoga Springs to do research for their pilot based in the Albany-area, "Little Dick". They left for that trip as confused colleagues who had kissed, and came back as a little something more. Still took them 22 days to go on their first date! Pictured here with Maren's Aunt Dana, Maren and Matt went out dancing and got steamy on the dance floor.
In the process of writing and producing work together, Maren and Matt fell in love. Their first date was on November 24th, 2019.

Pictured here is their first New Years Eve together!

December 31, 2019

In the process of writing and producing work together, Maren and Matt fell in love. Their first date was on November 24th, 2019. Pictured here is their first New Years Eve together!
First New Years Eve together -- and the first time the relationship went public on social media (a big milestone for millennials)!

December 31, 2019

First New Years Eve together -- and the first time the relationship went public on social media (a big milestone for millennials)!
Matt (re)meets Maren's family! Though Matt had already met some of Maren's family before they started dating, Matt officially met the extended family in February of 2020!

They visited the Ice Bar at the Sagamore Hotel and Resort on Lake George.

February 01, 2020

Matt (re)meets Maren's family! Though Matt had already met some of Maren's family before they started dating, Matt officially met the extended family in February of 2020! They visited the Ice Bar at the Sagamore Hotel and Resort on Lake George.
Matt, Maren, Aunt Kelly, Aunt Dana, and Uncle Marc at the Ice Bar at the Sagamore Hotel and Resort on Lake George.

February 01, 2020

Matt, Maren, Aunt Kelly, Aunt Dana, and Uncle Marc at the Ice Bar at the Sagamore Hotel and Resort on Lake George.
Family making dumplings for the Superbowl!

February 02, 2020

Family making dumplings for the Superbowl!
Maren meets Matt's fam! They went out to Sacramento to visit Matt's family in February of 2020.

February 16, 2020

Maren meets Matt's fam! They went out to Sacramento to visit Matt's family in February of 2020.
On their trip to Sacramento, they celebrated Matt's brother, Aaron's, birthday!

February 17, 2020

On their trip to Sacramento, they celebrated Matt's brother, Aaron's, birthday!
Maren and Matt walking around downtown Sacramento.

February 18, 2020

Maren and Matt walking around downtown Sacramento.
Maren meets Matt's Mom for the first time! They ate Korean BBQ and watched The Masked Singer.

February 20, 2020

Maren meets Matt's Mom for the first time! They ate Korean BBQ and watched The Masked Singer.
On the first trip to Sacramento as a couple, they gathered the whole fam for a dinner at BJ's!

February 21, 2020

On the first trip to Sacramento as a couple, they gathered the whole fam for a dinner at BJ's!
Matt meets Maren's immediate family! They travelled to Delaware for Charlie's 1st Birthday Party, the beginning of Matt becoming Uncle Mack to Charlie.

March 07, 2020

Matt meets Maren's immediate family! They travelled to Delaware for Charlie's 1st Birthday Party, the beginning of Matt becoming Uncle Mack to Charlie.
Quarantine begins! Maren and Matt found fresh air and refuge in Brooklyn's Prospect Park during the early days of COVID quarantine.

March 30, 2020

Quarantine begins! Maren and Matt found fresh air and refuge in Brooklyn's Prospect Park during the early days of COVID quarantine.
Maren and Matt in Brooklyn on the roof of their shared apartment, 620 Park Place Apt. 4L!

June 15, 2020

Maren and Matt in Brooklyn on the roof of their shared apartment, 620 Park Place Apt. 4L!
4th of July at The River with Charlie!

July 04, 2020

4th of July at The River with Charlie!
Maren and Matt scouting locations in Kerhonkson, NY for their second film "Keeper".

July 05, 2020

Maren and Matt scouting locations in Kerhonkson, NY for their second film "Keeper".
Quarantine caused Maren and Matt to spend nearly every waking moment together for almost a year, and they didn't get tired of each other!

July 20, 2020

Quarantine caused Maren and Matt to spend nearly every waking moment together for almost a year, and they didn't get tired of each other!
On August 1st, 2020, Maren & Matt brought Odin home from Puerto Rico.

August 02, 2020

On August 1st, 2020, Maren & Matt brought Odin home from Puerto Rico.
Odin quickly cemented himself as an inextricable part of the Lavelle Steiner family.

August 07, 2020

Odin quickly cemented himself as an inextricable part of the Lavelle Steiner family.
September 1st 2020, M&M moved to their first official apartment together, 620 Park Place Apt. 3L. That lasted about 5 months before they realized it was too small and moved back upstairs to 4L!

September 02, 2020

September 1st 2020, M&M moved to their first official apartment together, 620 Park Place Apt. 3L. That lasted about 5 months before they realized it was too small and moved back upstairs to 4L!
Maren and Matt visited The River to celebrate Grandpa Cutie's 80th birthday party! And brought a terrified Odin out on a paddle board for this photo.

September 07, 2020

Maren and Matt visited The River to celebrate Grandpa Cutie's 80th birthday party! And brought a terrified Odin out on a paddle board for this photo.
At one point, Maren and Matt had both puppy Odin and Percy the cat. Percy is no longer with us, but will forever be a part of the Lavelle Steiner family.

September 14, 2020

At one point, Maren and Matt had both puppy Odin and Percy the cat. Percy is no longer with us, but will forever be a part of the Lavelle Steiner family.
Odin's first boat day! The Lavelle Steiner clan enjoyed a boat day on Lake George with the Mercurios!

September 19, 2020

Odin's first boat day! The Lavelle Steiner clan enjoyed a boat day on Lake George with the Mercurios!
Family fun with The Goober, Aunt Maen, and Uncle Mack.

October 04, 2020

Family fun with The Goober, Aunt Maen, and Uncle Mack.
Maren and Matt's 1st anniversary!

November 24, 2020

Maren and Matt's 1st anniversary!
Thanksgiving in Saratoga Springs at Aunt Dana and Uncle Marc's! Matt's first Thanksgiving experiencing Uncle Marc's cooking.

November 26, 2020

Thanksgiving in Saratoga Springs at Aunt Dana and Uncle Marc's! Matt's first Thanksgiving experiencing Uncle Marc's cooking.
Maren and Matt did a portrait shoot for One-Eyed Rabbit with the REMARKABLE Dondre Stuetley.

February 18, 2021

Maren and Matt did a portrait shoot for One-Eyed Rabbit with the REMARKABLE Dondre Stuetley.
Matt and Maren making each other laugh at the photo shoot.

February 18, 2021

Matt and Maren making each other laugh at the photo shoot.
As the world began to recover from COVID-19 quarantine, Maren and Matt emerged with some ukulele duets.

May 18, 2021

As the world began to recover from COVID-19 quarantine, Maren and Matt emerged with some ukulele duets.
One-Eyed Rabbit represents at their first in-person film festival!

June 01, 2021

One-Eyed Rabbit represents at their first in-person film festival!
One-Eyed Rabbit produced their third short film, "Wendy", at Maren's old high school in Delaware, Cab Calloway School of the Arts.

Matt wrote the film, Maren directed it, and Matt played the role of drama teacher Mr. Hansen.

June 19, 2021

One-Eyed Rabbit produced their third short film, "Wendy", at Maren's old high school in Delaware, Cab Calloway School of the Arts. Matt wrote the film, Maren directed it, and Matt played the role of drama teacher Mr. Hansen.
Never a dull moment with Charlie, Aunt Maen, and Uncle Mack.

June 21, 2021

Never a dull moment with Charlie, Aunt Maen, and Uncle Mack.
Swimming with Charlie at The River for the annual Dooley/Knowles family gathering over The 4th of July!

June 30, 2021

Swimming with Charlie at The River for the annual Dooley/Knowles family gathering over The 4th of July!
Odin's first Gotcha Day! Maren and Matt celebrated one year with Odin by throwing a puppy birthday party!

August 01, 2021

Odin's first Gotcha Day! Maren and Matt celebrated one year with Odin by throwing a puppy birthday party!
Maren finally meets Matt's sister Michaela in-person! They all went rock climbing together in Sacramento.

August 07, 2021

Maren finally meets Matt's sister Michaela in-person! They all went rock climbing together in Sacramento.
MAREN AND MATT GET ENGAGED! Matt proposed to Maren in the vineyards of Castello di Amorosa in Napa Valley, California on August 10th, 2021 with a beautiful ring and heartwarming "drumline" compiled from videos by family and friends.

August 10, 2021

MAREN AND MATT GET ENGAGED! Matt proposed to Maren in the vineyards of Castello di Amorosa in Napa Valley, California on August 10th, 2021 with a beautiful ring and heartwarming "drumline" compiled from videos by family and friends.
The happy couple! (Find the tear streaming down Maren's cheek)

August 10, 2021

The happy couple! (Find the tear streaming down Maren's cheek)
Matt finally meets Maren's Dad and Stepmom in-person when they surprised M&M for dinner in NYC to celebrate the engagement!

August 25, 2021

Matt finally meets Maren's Dad and Stepmom in-person when they surprised M&M for dinner in NYC to celebrate the engagement!
Maren and Matt's Engagement Party at Kingston Hall in NYC! They got very drunk and were so happy to celebrate with friends and family.

September 25, 2021

Maren and Matt's Engagement Party at Kingston Hall in NYC! They got very drunk and were so happy to celebrate with friends and family.
Maren, Matt, and Odin moved to Montclair, NJ on September 1st, 2020! They've enjoyed exploring NJ with their friends!

October 24, 2021

Maren, Matt, and Odin moved to Montclair, NJ on September 1st, 2020! They've enjoyed exploring NJ with their friends!
Maren & Matt's Engagement Photoshoot!

December 04, 2021

Maren & Matt's Engagement Photoshoot!